38. 10 Tips for How to Hook Up and Find Someone While on Vacation (Part 2)

On this week’s episode, Chatrice and Luis continue their discussion of hooking up while on vacation. Our hosts continue the discussion in part 2 working through the rest of the tips from John Chesler’s article of the Phoenix New Times, who wrote “10 Rules for Vacation Hookups”. Since last time, Chatrice and Luis went to a Pride Brunch, went to a garden party, and have just come back from an out of town trip. 

Time Stamps:

0:20 - Hello and Welcome Back!

0:47 - What the hosts have been up to since last week

11:37 - Me moment from this past week for the hosts

15:01 - Shout out for the culture: Juneteenth, Black Music Month, Insecure Series Finale Wrap Up

17:57 - Tales of A Tinderoni

25:31 - Thoughts on Sugar Daddy Scam

30:15 - Main Topic: Teach me how to heux, part II

30:54 - Recap of Tips #5 through #10

31:33 - Tip #4: Do take a chance

34:47 - Taking a side trip (aka a tangent): Chatrice’s phone blowing up from several guys, specifically on one day. Back to back with the text messages. 

38:00 - Conference bae mindset

38:29 - Tip #4a from Courting in Color: Get in the Right Mindset

38:39 - Tip #3: Don’t expect to hook up

40:24 - Swiping at the airport 

41:25 - Cross-country road trip Tinder swiping

43:44 - Hook up ritual for vacations

44:06 - Bio in hometown vs. while on vacation

44:20 - Tip from Luis: Update your bio accordingly. Write: “i’m in town looking for _____, i am here until _____”

46:21 - Tip #2: Do have a plan

47:10 - Exit strategy from a hook up 

52:51 - Tip #1: Don’t be stupid

53:33 - Riskiest things done for the hook up, risk it for the biscuit

55:10 - Luis’ Story of meeting up with someone from Tinder in Italy

58:10 - Heux Traveller: see Rome at night

1:02:25 - Wrap Up

1:02:45 - Final tips from hosts for this hot girl/hot heux summer:  buy the bigger size clothes; wear clothes that make you comfortable; it is okay if clothes do not fit you from last summer; whatever body you are going into summer with is great and amazing

1:05:58 - End of episode