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46. What's Your Dating Lifestyle?

On this week’s episode, Chatrice and Luis talk dating lifestyle. Courting Cuties, are you more of a homebody or out here in these streets in dating or in your relationship? What is your dating lifestyle? Since last week, Luis purchased new crocs and being busy at work; meanwhile, Chatrice is also busy at work and went axe-throwing! For the main topic, our hosts discuss defining “homebody” and “socialite”; routines in a relationship; and the performance of dating.

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45. You Vs. You Representative

On this week’s episode, Chatrice and Luis discuss being REALly in our relations. What does it mean to be your real self in relationships? Since the last episode, Luis has Florida travel adventures and went on their first triple date; meanwhile, Chatrice recently returned from DC and learned lessons for train travelling. For the main topic of bringing real selves into relaitonships , our hosts talk about when the real you shows up, self-sabotage, and Brene Brown’s definition of vulnerability.

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44. Convenience Dating

On this week’s episode, Chatrice and Luis welcome Guest Courting Cutie Monet to talk about conviencing. Our hosts and Monet talk about a recent Tale of Tinderoni , defining and naming the rules of convenience dating, and, dating without the need for it to be long-term. Before this conversation, our hosts catch up: since last time Luis is on vacation doing travel to celebrate Chatrice’s birthday and Chatrice has joined the 30+ club (hello Leo season!).

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43. Foreplay, Aftercare & Everything in Between (Part II)

On this week’s epsidoe, Chatrice and Luis bring the Cuties part II of their BDSM discussion - this time sharing and discussing the results of the BDSM test they took. Before diving into the main topic, our hosts catch up. Since last time, Chatrice and Luis went furntiture shopping and met an array of characters! Luis woke up hella early to win for free coffee for a year (thanks Dunkin!) while Chatrice went on a very special date.

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42. Foreplay, Aftercare & Everything in Between

On this week’s episode, Chatrice and Luis discuss BDSM after completing an online quiz. For this Part 1 episode, our hosts specifically get into sex within in dating and relationships talking about orgasm gap, aftercare, and outercourse. Since last time Luis was recognized out on the skreets and figuring they lost all of their social skills during the pandemic while Chatrice continues to work on the house before her birthday and might have a date!

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41. Dear Damona

On this week’s episode, Chatrice and Luis welcome Damona Hoffman, certified dating coach and host of Dates and Mates podcast. Since last episode, Luis visit Chicago and wondering their role in a social circle, while Chatrice spent the holiday weekend on the lake and received a random text. Damona talks to Chatrice and Luis about a recent message exchange from Chatrice; data trends in dating, realtionships, and divorce rates; representation in dating and relationship help field; and, new dating terms we should be aware of.

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40. Examining Annie and Nick's Relationship on 'Shrill', Was It Mixed Messages or Missed Messages?

On this week’s episode, Chatrice and Luis talk and review the third season of Shrill (Hulu). Since last time, Luis has developed a cold and recently back from vacation, while Chatrice is waiting on her house to finish and has been watching all the Black content on HBO Max. For the main topic (SPOILER WARNING), our hosts want to talk about mixed messages through the arc of Annie and Nick on “Shrill” in season 3. What do you make when someone is being flirty, spending a lot of time with you, pay for meals, wanting to keep seeing you, and invite you over late at night? Does that mean someone is into you? Courting Cuties, have you ever mixed up someone’s message or flipside you missed all the messages that they were into you? To listen to this episode on your favorite podcast app, visit Where to Listen for a complete list of where to listen to Courting in Color!

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39. Honey, I Shrunk the Baby Gay!

On this week’s episode, Chatrice and Luis invite Courting Cutie Rachel to discuss Pride Month, relationship fuzzies, and the term ‘baby gay’. Our hosts discuss Philadelphia travel (including their highs/lows), the travel bug that bit Chatrice again, Luis rants on the current state of the service industry. With Rachel, the discussion revolves around male gaze in relationships, first queer relationship, exploring dating outside of cishet men, and demisexuality.

If you would like to see Rachel’s section of this week’s episode, you can watch it on Youtube! Visit https://youtu.be/TPRNawOfQpY. The video has closed captions as well!

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38. 10 Tips for How to Hook Up and Find Someone While on Vacation (Part 2)

On this week’s episode, Chatrice and Luis continue their discussion of hooking up while on vacation. Our hosts continue the discussion in part 2 working through the rest of the tips from John Chesler’s article of the Phoenix New Times, who wrote “10 Rules for Vacation Hookups. Since last time, Chatrice and Luis went to a Pride Brunch, went to a garden party, and have just come back from an out of town trip.

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37. 10 Tips for How to Hook Up and Find Someone While on Vacation (Part 1)

On this week’s episode, Chatrice and Luis have the first part of a conversation around hooking up while on vacation. Our hosts reference John Chesler’s article of the Phoenix New Times, who wrote “10 Rules for Vacation Hookups. They walk through each of the 10 tips to answer questions about how to get laid on vacation, how do you stay safe with hooksups, and how to find someone on vacation.

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36. Chatrice and Luis, Will Anyone Ever Love Me?

On this week’s episode, Chatrice and Luis talk about the idea of the fear of not being loved. Inspired by a letter sent to ¡Hola Papi! advice column by JP Brammer, our hosts talk about: worthiness of love, asking will anyone ever love me, and your social circle’s impact on your view of the world. Since last time, Luis has been enjoying nature and hiking, while Chatrice has been focused on house rennovation and trying to stay on schedule for it.

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35. All Right Hotties, Hot Vax Summer Is Here! Tips For You To Make It Memorable

All Right, Hotties (aka Courting Cuties) Hot Vax Summer is here and we got your tips to make it memorable. Since recording Luis has crossed 1k followers on the food insta and Chatrice has learned 2 new s3x moves! Our hosts talk about what does hot girl summer mean, when does it start/end, and how to best prepare for this summer. Hot Girl Summer will be a hot vax summer because your body is ready!

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