28. Will you marry... you?
On this week’s episode, Luis and Chatrice talk about sologamy. Since last week, our co-hosts had a press day, adventures in cooking, and home renovations. Through twitter scrolling, Luis found out that Mya has been married to herself for 7 years. It’s known as sologamy or self-marriage. Have you heard of this, Courting Cuties? Our hosts talk about what they think about sologamy, describe their ideal self proposals and self-marriages, discuss intentionally being single, and plan their self-weddings. Luis comes up with a new rom-com movie idea - starring Chatrice with Tiffany Haddish and Kerry Washington.
Word of the Pod - sologamy (n.) a marriage by a person to themselves
Time Stamps
0:21 - Catching up
5:00 - How much of adulting is cleaning?
10:38 - Shout out for the culture
12:39 - Main topic introductions
15:11 - What is sologamy?
16:37 - Dennis Rodman marrying self
20:58 - Hosts thoughts on sologamy
24:45 - Queer marriage existing outside the institution of marriage
26:00 - Hosts describe their self proposals and self marriages ceremonies
29:17 - What happens if sologamists find someone, is it self-divorce?
30:58 - Single postivity movement
31:10 - Cohosts talk about intentionaly being single
33:08 - Chatrice sees a white pe*is on Tinder
34:55 - Cohosts talk about what would self wedding look like
38:34 - Music to walk to down the aisle to at the hosts’ co-wedding
40:10 - Luis comes up with a new rom-com movie idea: Chatrice woudl have a self-marriage ceremony but find the love of her life at her self-marriage ceremony!
42:09 - Sologamy is not a new thing but it is new for some people
42:30 - Wedding registry for a self-marriage ceremony
43:12 - Why do we celebrate people fidning love with another person as opposed to love with themselves?
45:22 - Idea for Hallmark: cards to give someone who just broke up with someone else
51:00 - Focusing on interpersonal relationships to include romantic and platonic friendships
52:38 - Take yourself out, get cute like you would for a date
54:24 - Wrap up: how to understand or know more about sologamy
A Guide to Sologamy by Sophie Tanner - https://www.imarriedme.co.uk/a-guide-to-sologamy-by-sophie-tanner/